Umboni: kuwonongeka kwa maubwenzi owopsa

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Umboni: kuwonongeka kwa maubwenzi owopsa

 

Ngakhale titha kuiwala izi, zibwenzi zimatha kuwononga monga chikondi komanso makamaka ndikakhala anthu omwe amakonda kwambiri omwe amakonda kusewera ndi zomwe mumamva ...

Ubwenzi ndi chinthu chofunikira m'moyo makamaka ngati, ngati ine, sunali pafupi kwambiri ndi banja lako. Inemwini, nthawi zonse ndakhala ndikulakalaka kudzisungira ndekha mokwanira mu maubale anga onse. Ndili ndi lingaliro lakuya kwambiri laubwenzi potengera ulemu, kulumikizana, kupezeka komanso kuthandizidwa. Ndili ndi zolakwitsa (zambiri) koma ndimayesetsa kukhala bwenzi lomwe titha kudalira, yemwe angamvere popanda kuweruza, yemwe angalimbikitse, kukankha ndikupereka uphungu popanda choletsa. Ngati ndimakonda, ndimapereka zonse zanga ndipo ndimatha kuchita zonse zomwe ndingathe kuti ndikondweretse winayo ndikumva kukhumudwitsidwa ngati china chake chimuchitikira. Ndipo ndichifukwa choti ndimakumbukira zinthu kuti ndalephera kucheza ndi ena.

Komabe kukoma mtima kumeneku kwakhala kundiseka nthawi zambiri. Poyamba, mukakhala wowolowa manja, mumatsegula khomo kwa anthu omwe sali abwino komanso omwe amakugwiritsani ntchito kukoma mtima kumeneku. Amalakwitsa kudzipereka kwanu chifukwa chofooka. Chifukwa kupereka kwa aliyense ndiko kupereka kwa aliyense. Zimakhala zoyipa kwambiri mukakhala munthu wamanyazi ngakhale pali njira zothetsera vutoli. Ndipo nthawi zambiri anthuwa amandigwiritsa ntchito akakhala kuti ndi ovuta kwambiri kenako amadzilola kuti andipondereze. Sindingathe kuwerengera kangapo izi zachitika.

Inenso ndili ndi udindo, inde. Ndimakonda kupulumutsa iwo amene akuvutika, ngakhale zitanthauza kuti andiyiwala. Koma ndimachita mwachikondi komanso popanda kuganiza chifukwa ndi gawo la umunthu wanga. Ndakhala ndikumva zowawa komanso zowawa ndipo ngati ndingathandize wina kumva bwino, ndimatero osazengereza. Ndikuyesera kukhala bwenzi lomwe ndikufuna.

Komabe, ngakhale ndicholinga changa chabwino, chibadwa cha munthu sichiri chachifundo. Chifukwa mukadzangokhala mtundu wodzipewa kuti mupewe mikangano ndi kupezeka nthawi zonse kupatula ena (ngakhale atakhala oyenera kapena ayi), tikukupatsani chida ndipo tikukulamulirani. Mwamwayi, si onse omwe ali ofanana ndipo pali anthu omwe angakulemekezeni ndikukuyamikirani. Koma ndikofunikira kutsimikizira nokha.

Ndinalakwitsa kuti sindinachite mokwanira komanso ndikakumana ndi mavuto omwe adandisautsa kwambiri. Nthawi zambiri, cholakwika chaching'ono chomwe ndinapanga chinali choti ndikaweruzidwe, ndimalangidwa chifukwa chosiyidwa. Nditapereka malingaliro anga owona, ndinakanidwa chifukwa sindinakonde. Inde, ngati mulimbikitsa kwambiri, mwina angakukwiyireni ngakhale mutasiyana pang'ono chifukwa simukugwirizana. Chilichonse ndi chowiringula kunamizira kuti ndiwe wolakwa.

Anthu ovuta awa nthawi zonse amayembekeza zambiri kuchokera kwa ine popanda kuyesera kuti ndikhalepo pomwe ndimafunikira poyesera "kukula" pomwe malingaliro anga ena sanawakondweretse, kuseka, kukambirana wina ndi mnzake, mukuganiza kuti vuto langa linali chiyani ndikangokhala nawo osasangalala nawo. Izi sizikutanthauza kuti chilichonse chiyenera kulandiridwa koma palibe amene ali wangwiro ndipo timakonda okondedwa athu ngakhale amachimwa. Mwachidziwikire, zonsezi zidakhala ndi zotsatira pazomwe ndili lero. Sili ndi chidaliro pang'ono ndipo ndimapepesa nthawi zonse chifukwa chokhala momwe ndilili. Ndili ndi mavuto ambiri ndikamakangana ndipo ndimakonda kutha. Koma ndilinso wamphamvu, ndimatha kudzimasula kwa anthu omwe amandipangitsa kuvutika m'malo mokhululuka nthawi zonse. Chifukwa chake inunso mutha kulimbitsa kudzidalira kwanu.

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